Thursday, November 17, 2011

Rob and Kristen - When Love Conquers All...

Rob and Kristen - perfect in black...
It isn't often that i am left reeling in anger over something i have read online. I tend to take the piss out of people, who are being either catty, stupid or just complete and utterly foolish. Those that believe that a little drama can go a long way. Spout shite in their little trolling blogs and tumblrs, then cry and whine when others copy and paste their drivel when it's public in the first place. 

A little hint, if you don't want 'certain people reading it - make it private' but rest assured someone will eventually see your vile filled hate and post it elsewhere anyway.

Hate needs to be called out, why? Because the longer it festers and goes unnoticed, the worse the reality will seem to be when one day, someone will do something really stupid, because people didn't listen or pay attention to them.

Another day, another Breaking Dawn premiere and the excitement was building. The fans eager with anticipation; what will Rob wear, what type of dress will Kristen wear - long or short? Will she wear her hair up or down. What nondescript suit will Taylor wear as he is a lover of all things D&G. 
On a white carpet, they each chose monochrome colours...
Kristen looked ravishing in a wonderful Roberto Cavalli dress; topped off with a men's 'McQueen belt (worn backwards across the very low back of the dress) synced around her waist and Jimmy Choo platform heels. Both men wore Emporio Armani suits and looked debonair and dashing, as they escorted Kristen side by side down the white and red carpet at the London Breaking Dawn premiere. They seemed to pay particular attention in doing so, especially Rob; who seemed reluctant to leave Kristen's side. Yes, you can 'sigh' a little swoon worthy in suggesting that it's because of their 'obvious' openness about their relationship now, that they seem more comfortable standing close side by side and smiling to the world's press. But there is a much seedier conclusion as to why last night; Rob and Kristen's security team played very close attention to where Kristen was at every single moment of her time on the white carpet.
Staying very close to Kristen's side...
There are a lot of bat-shit crazy people out there...
I have often been pretty objective and sometimes over cynical (that's the right way to spell it by the way) when it comes to the herd of haters, who fill this fandom with their pathetic drivel. I can put up with some crazy ideas that Rob is some sex god to be objectified and drooled over, that's just women and hormones who will eventually either grow up and move on, or whittle their days away dreaming of someone who will never be theirs. BUT when some become so obsessed, they emulate and mimic a person to the point that they no longer know where their obsession ends and their life begins. 

Apparently, a security problem was discovered yesterday in Stratford/London where the premiere was to be held. When someone (sorry i will not advertise her name because let's face it, the more promotion for her the bigger her obsession will become) Instead i am calling the bat shit out on her vile behaviour. This charm filled collection of obsessive and compulsive tendencies, decided to let her 'displeasure' be known via the wonderful world of the social network called twitter, that she was going to do something to Kristen. You see this person is completely and utterly obsessed over Rob, yes and that's not shocking to me anymore. The more i invest in this fandom, the more i see crazy absolutely everywhere. This person was planning to do Kristen 'harm' but unfortunately for her, some people who read her vile hate filled tweets, passed them on to others. Allowing members of the Twilight fandom; to contact those in authority. Making them aware of this person, who just so happened to get herself a very close view of the carpet and of course, would be very close to the stars themselves (mainly Rob)
This one is for the hater...
LET'S BE DEADLY SERIOUS FOR ONE MOMENT...
NOW...there comes a time when cheek and sarcasm can be left at the door for a little while. When common sense takes over and honest thoughts are put in place. This person and indeed the hate filled people, who seem to think it's okay to speak openly about their hate for Kristen and what they would do if ever they met her, needs to come to an end. This is not normal behaviour, this is dangerous, very dangerous indeed. Fans can have crushes on stars; celebrities are used to situations where a fan will scream and cry, because they are so overwhelmed with meeting them. Posters on walls and collecting movies/music/books is not a new thing. BUT this overwhelming obsessive desire to hate a woman who has done NOTHING wrong at all, except just so happens to be the centre of Robert Pattinson's life. And because of this, haters like the person i am speaking about and others...trust me there are others. With the same amount of craze filled hate running through their blood, fill blogs and tweets with their dangerous suggestions. Issuing threats which in any language; whether it be verbal of typed out on a message and sent virally online...is still a threat and should be taken very seriously.
This man is mine!
If Rob was a single guy; half of the shit that i see would not apply. Girls would gather around and giggle insanely as they try to get his attention. Just one glimpse or smile from him and they would be floating on cloud nine for the rest of their lives. BUT it's plainly obvious that he is not single. That he in fact, has a partner whom he shares his life with. Nothing has been any more obvious or anymore revealing than Rob's past interviews, press junkets and indeed verbal confirmations in many forms, that this indeed is the case. Photographic evidence, verbal confirmations from co-stars, have even weighed in on the mix. Not to mention Bill Condon's gushing with pride at the love that they both share on-screen and off. Nothing seems to get through the thicket of hate, that he is not for the taking. Yet, the hate goes on; the verbal diarrhoea spills out from every crevice that Kristen has to be 'brought down and put in her place.'


It's sickening and needs to be stopped. Kristen looked absolutely breathtaking last night as she stepped out in London with Rob and Taylor by her side. She is fully aware of those that hate her and can even understand some level of jealousy of course. But the threatening to injure or endanger her life - sorry, but that is where it has to come to an end. Cyber-stalking and threatening behaviour cannot be tolerated and this small group of hate filled women MUST be brought to question for their disgusting conduct. Freedom of speech DOES NOT excuse what they do, what they say and what in certain circumstances, try to carry out.
No words...
Last night was pretty obvious that Rob and Kristen, much like the LA premiere, stepped out as a couple, finally embraced the madness and simply enjoyed the moment. There is no fake or PR agenda, despite the ludicrous suggestions the hate filled camp are spewing out. Their pathetic excuses are just laughable now - anything but the truth isn't that right haters? Rob and Kristen looked adorable and every inch a couple, even in moments when Taylor stood beside them. Fans have waited for a confirmation, haters will only believe if Rob, their precious Rob, actually says the words 'I am with Kristen' 

But here is the kicker. Why does Rob have to say it when he shows it in many different ways? He has vocally announced how much Kristen is 'still the best actress in her generation' and how the 'best gift he has ever given was a guitar he bought Kristen for her 18th birthday.' How being with Kristen is 'very natural' and how he is very 'privileged to have someone like Kristen in his life.' He took the part of Edward Cullen when he found out 'Kristen had signed on to play Bella Swan' and how the only reason he did that was because he had just seen 'Into the Wild' and admitted several, countless times that he had a 'crush on Kristen Stewart.'
With Rob, Kristen feels like a woman...
Fans of Rob; true fans that is, would appreciate and accept that he is happy and has someone special in his life. Someone who is not after his money, or the fact that he is famous. Can put up with the crap that sometimes surrounds his life (namely stalkers and haters alike) and who is not only supportive, but encourages his thoughts and ideas, can understand his sometimes disjointed views of life and himself. Call him out on his maddening self-deprecating but at the same time, is there for him whenever he simply needs a friend. His admiration for Kristen and Kristen's passionate admiration for him, has been seen right from the very beginning and with that - came love. Yes i may sometimes spout hearts and flowers, but that's because i have no hidden agenda. 

Do i obsess and fantasize about Robert Pattinson? Thank god no, i don't. You see i can call myself honestly a 'true fan of Rob' there are quite a few of us out there that can stand up and testify to that label. I adore and admire Kristen Stewart as well and if she was not a huge part of Rob's life, i would still admire her no matter what. I am secretly happy that they are done with trying to 'keep hidden' the worst kept secret in the world to be honest. Anyone who does not obsess over Rob has seen it right from the very beginning. Love conquers all, and i believe it also conquers over hate. To hate someone, would imply you have a very low view of life in general. To hate someone you don't even know, suggests you spend way too much time obsessing over something you can't have.
Speechless...
To hate this girl and call her ugly, shows the complete lack of respect you have for anyone. Especially someone who to be perfectly honest, would not feel the same way about you. Why? Because Kristen Stewart rises above the hate and has a heart full of compassion. She would simply apologise that you feel that strongly about her and sympathise with your point of view - that's known as a sense of class.
A powerful couple in love...
Final thoughts...
You may be one of those people who believe Rob and Kristen are nothing but yet another PR romance. Carefully woven through promotion for a movie franchise that is nearing it's end and think to yourself 'Rob will be done soon and free from that .....' 
You couldn't be more wrong.

You may be one of those fans who simply adore Rob and Kristen, because they prove that love does exist in Hollywood. That two people can find each other in amongst the fake and flawless of Tinseltown. Because sometimes all that glitters is most definitely not gold.
For that you should be very happy from what you have witnessed so far.

Love is free but never easy - It always comes with a price. That price can be paid in many ways and for Robert Pattinson, the price is mainly the fans who feel he should be single and attainable. Free from any long term commitments, free from any co-stars other than the ones they pick to be his 'hook ups' that's the crazy element he has recently spoken of. Those that camp outside hotels and follow him around when he is driving or walking anywhere. That's the kind of fandom he does not like at all. The price of fame can sometimes be the price you pay in love ending badly. Rob and Kristen refuse to let anything on the outside interfere with their lives. They choose to keep what is very private to themselves and will not sell anything that they deem to be theirs and that includes their love life. Public announcements? Not going to happen any time soon. There is no need for verbal confirmation, when you show it in every other way possible. 

To those who believe they can read Rob and his body language, the way he smiles or frowns or answers his questions. Come back to me when you have a PhD in Psychology. When you have studied extensively in all forms of Body Language and observational skills and then we can talk, because you know absolutely nothing. Yes i am calling out those who believe they know everything about Robert Pattinson, possibly better than he knows himself.

In other words, if you can't show me actually evidence to back up your supposed theories, then shut the heck up, because you have not got a clue what you are talking about!
Perfect...
T.

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