Rob and Kristen - It is what it is...

Let me hear you whisper softly in my ear...

It seems this drought has sent people completely over the edge, as they fight against the constant Rob or Kristen mirage that pops up in front of their eyes at a moments notice.

In my eyes i see no one else but you...

The foamy hate gets extra thick this time of year, as the 'desperate ones' wrap up for the summer and become even more incensed at letting it be known 'Rob and Kristen are not together - fact!'

The amount of hate directed at two people astounds me (yes even now after all this time) the lengths people will go to in order to get their dogma across - there is no 'R and K' it's all a carefully plotted out PR contract, they're not together they haven't seen each other for weeks now!'

Really?
Are you sure of that?
Are you really sure of that?

There's no other love, like our love...

The way i see it is very simple...desperation calls for desperate times.
The haters, whiners, foamers and hyenas; all seem to run around in circles chasing their tails with their 'exit strategies' their 'fake romances' because that's all their little brains can hold at any one time. It would be nice for them to be right...just for once, just to validate their points...without being crushed under a barrage of 'told you so's', forcing them into exile...hidden away...locked in their puce green towers (jealousy) snarling and snapping in the dark recess of their hate. They make comments on blogs about how 'Rob looks so happy without 'her' how he has been able to enjoy his time in Toronto because 'she' hasn't been there to annoy him!' 

Once more i have to say;
Are you absolutely sure about that?
Do you really think Kristen hasn't visited Toronto once...twice...three times?

Oh yes, I'll always want you near me...

Kristen;“I think it’s so important to keep what’s important to you, yours. I’ll never relinquish that, because if I did, I would lose my mind, I would hate myself, I would be ashamed of myself. Because as soon as you try to be honest about something that everyone is so…sort of… preoccupied with, it’s gonna be dishonest as soon as everyone consumes it. I would never talk about stuff like that.”

Interesting don't you think?
going to go all Scully on you; "The answers are there, you just have to know where to look." 

Just because Rob and Kristen are not seen in public, doesn't mean they're not together.

Kristen's quote says so much; it defines how she views her private life. Beyond the tabloids and their made up stories, beyond hate filled blogs and attacks aimed in her and Rob's direction...beyond everything because once you let the press in, once you let an inch of your life out there to the public arena...you loose what defined you, what made you who you are. Rob and Kristen are 'PRIVATE' people which means if they can, they will ensure that the time they spend together is not paraded out in front of the public for the attention, certainly not to gain any kind of respect. This whole 'PR' crap the haters and hags throw about just proves how some stupid people's minds work. That they would sacrifice a bit of themselves to go out and be 'public property' - sell their 'privacy' just for the attention it will give them?

Rob is working and Kristen is currently in pre production mode for her next leading role. They are actors, constant professionals and do not need to get under each others feet when they have work to do. Oh i know there are those out there, who seem to think they should be joined at the hip always - but that simply is not possible. They have been doing this for a long time now, they trust each other and that's the most important thing. Pity the so called 'fans' can do the same eh?

I've waited for you, for so long...

Seems everyone has an opinion about Rob and his love life or career. Everyone has a view they would like to share with the world; mostly that Kristen keeps tying him down, stopping him from reaching his full potential. Not allowing him to have his shining moment. She's dragging him down, she's making him miserable...yeah, i can see by all the happy, giggly, whispering moments during the MMA's not more than a few short weeks ago...that Rob looked absolutely miserable.

*Thanks to the lovely RobStenation for this wonderful 'about time' audio clip from the Barcelona press conference for Water for Elephants*

Rob: "I've always liked the idea that when I'm unemployable in few years..like just marrying a rich woman, doing tennis lessons, going to lunch w/my friends, having a little baby in one of those pouches on the front. That's kind of my dream of my life would be. It will be" 

Interesting comment from Rob don't you think? Planning ahead that in a few times time, this is how he sees his future. Now one side of the fandom clap and cheer, because they know that Rob is currently very happy with a certain someone and this is most likely how he wants to view his life. Lets face it; Kristen's not short of a penny or two...well neither is he lets be honest and the whole 'having a baby in a pouch at the front' indicates he would be happy just sitting at home, looking after the kids, taking care of the home and letting the 'rich woman' work or do whatever she does.

Heh, foamy haters in three...two...one...

Of course the other side of the wall, the crazy camp see this as Rob being a sexist - 'how dare he say that, how dare he demand he sits at home and let the little lady go to work!' Of course there's the whole 'he's aiming high, he wants to marry a rich woman so she can support his lazy ass!'

Lady, your love's the only love i need...

This is where some choose to only read or hear what they want to read or hear...and loose it all in translation. Without going into too much detail; the explanation for me was very clear. Happiness means having a person to share his life with, having children and looking after them. 

It is what it is... 

There are times i have read things in this fandom that literally make me want to scream and shout with frustration. The amount of doubters that can't understand simply logic. If you choose to believe that just because you can't see something, means doom and gloom on the horizon, then leave now. Save yourselves the constant whiplash, because it happens All.The.Time.

And beside me is where i want you to be...

No one can change your mind no matter how many times it's written as plain as can be - Rob and Kristen are together, deeply in love, deeply committed and no matter what, find the time to be together.

I'll always want you near me, I've waited for you for so long...

This post has been brought to you by the lyrics of 'Lady' by Kenny Rogers.
Have a lovely day =)
T.